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Saturday, 14 November 2009

  • Enforced Secrecy

    Well, today’s been a little frustrating, because I’ve been very productive, but a lot of what I’ve been doing is not bloggable. And much of it has been difficult to do because I have been experiencing much more pain than usual, and being on my feet for even a few minutes is excruciating.

    Still, I guess I could tell you that I cut out Lucy’s new cloak.  You know, the one I promised to make her for her birthday back in March. . . . A few weeks ago she picked out some very sturdy brown twill at Wal-Mart.  Today I prewashed it and then cut it out. And then, since I was on a roll, I went ahead and zipped up the seams on my serger. Maybe tomorrow I can attach the hood and hem the thing.  I had forgotten how fast it is to make a cloak with no yoke and no lining. At least I got it to where she could try it on before she went to bed!

    Mary spent all morning at an academic conference on campus, where she presented a paper she had written. I didn’t get to go hear her, but I’m hoping to get to read the paper. I know she did a great job and I’m so proud of her!

    Since I had the dining room table taken up with cutting-out stuff, the few of us who were home at lunchtime ate in the living room and watched an episode of Jeeves & Wooster—the one where both Jeeves and Wooster end up dressing in drag by the end.  It was a nice little break from everything else I was trying to do.

    47 more days till Lina leaves.  That’s not very much time!

Friday, 13 November 2009

  • A Disappointment & Disaster Averted

    Today was the day that Flynn was going to get his driver’s license, at long last. I know some of you are thinking it’s downright weird for an American boy to wait so long to get his license. But Flynn is no dummy. He didn’t see any reason why he should pay astronomical amounts of money for insurance when he lived within walking distance of school and work.

    So anyway, he was ready to take the test, so I took Lina to work this morning so we could have Valvados (Flynn’s car) for the test. My mistake.  (Flynn’s mistake was expecting me to have a functioning brain first thing in the morning.) We got to DPS and Flynn waited in line and did paperwork, and was told he would have to come back at 3:45 to take his driving test.

    This was not happy news. It meant Flynn would have to leave in the middle of a class (after taking a quiz), and it meant that Lina might not get picked up from school on time.  Only then did it occur to me that I should have just let Lina drive the van to school!

    This afternoon at 3:15 I was waiting impatiently for Flynn to arrive when Lina called needing to be picked up, and I couldn’t leave her waiting because she had to go to work. So I rushed to get her and arrived back, jumped in the other car with Flynn (who had meanwhile arrived) and droved sedately off to the DPS.  Not that I wanted to drive sedately, but it happened to be right when everyone in town was picking their kids up from school, and what with the traffic and the school zones it might have been quicker to walk, except that of course we needed the vehicle for the test! I fervently hoped that the trooper would be running behind and that it wouldn’t be a big deal that we were seven or eight minutes late.

    So we finally got there and Flynn waited in line for a long time again, only to be told that he had missed his appointment and would have to come back Monday morning to make another appointment, because of course they don’t let you make appointments for another day, because that would actually make sense.  So Monday we get to go do it all again.

    Meanwhile, another minor crisis was averted with the arrival of a package today.  Look what was inside:

     11-13-09 Marmite twins

    When I made ricecakes for the Ferns’ visit, I was horrified to discover that there wasn’t actually enough Marmite to go with them. Fortunately, my Marmite suppliers are lifelong friends whom I have known for more than 40 years. So I ordered these jars, commenting that I had made ricecakes and run out of Marmite. Scott understood the seriousness of the situation and got these in the mail to me immediately!  If you ever need Marmite or various other British imports, I highly recommend their company, The Marmite Pantry: http://www.marmitepantry.com/index.html

    I also found time today to get out Swifty and wind some yarn. Here’s the lovely DK weight that Rebekah helped me dye:

    11-13-09 merino silk sportweight  

    And the beautiful alpaca/silk laceweight she gave me and helped me dye:

     11-13-09 alpaca silk laceweight

    And the lovely superwash sock yarn I got that week too:

     11-13-09 green sock yarn

    It’s “Happy Feet” by Plymouth Yarn Co. The big question is, do I love this yarn enough to actually make myself a pair of socks?  I have yet to be bitten by the sock-knitting bug.

    Then there were Mary’s dual crises. First, she had a book that she had to read and about which she must write a paper before Monday. Only, she hasn’t been able to find it since Tuesday. We looked all over the house, more than once.  It appeared to have vanished into thin air.  I offered a reward. Then Spencer came back from having supper with a friend, and it turned out Mary’s book had been stuck by some mysterious person into Spencer’s zippered binder.  It hadn’t occurred to Spencer that maybe he ought to mention this.  I’m just so glad the book was found!

    Then there was the little matter of Mary’s money.  When we went to set up Mary’s checking account the other day, she got a nasty surprise. She had a lot less money than she thought residing in the savings account that she had been sharing with her younger siblings. Since I am the one who does her banking, suspicion naturally fell on me. Not that anyone thought I stole it, but that I had screwed up royally and cost Mary a couple hundred dollars!

    I couldn’t believe I could have blown it that badly. Mary couldn’t believe that after all her hard work she wouldn’t have enough money for school next semester. Coming in the same week as the driver’s license fail, I was feeling pretty low.

    This evening I sat down to pay a bunch of bills and do some online banking, and I discovered a startling and thrilling fact. The money wasn’t lost, and it wasn’t my fault. The teller had on two different occasions deposited Mary’s money into the wrong account!  It was still there—I just hadn’t looked for it in that account, since it wasn’t supposed to be there! Not that this makes me any less stupid, but at least this particular misstep was not my fault.

    Parting Shot:

    11-13-09 pink mini rose (4)  

    Our shrub roses are blooming again.  This rose is about the size of a quarter.

     

Thursday, 12 November 2009

  • The Big Leap of Faith

    Well, I never thought that this would be part of my job description. First, I worked hard at getting Mercy flights to and from Colorado at times that work out for Mangy, who will be transporting her to and from the Denver airport.

    I thought, however, that the stress of finding flights for Lina was off my shoulders because I had received an offer of help from someone who used to be in the airline industry and who was something of an expert. I had already proven by then that I could find much cheaper options than any of the discount travel sites.  Then today I received an e-mail from my would-be helper, saying that really, I probably knew more about flying to Africa than she did, so I might as well figure it out on my own!

    So, figure it out I did (poor Lina is so stressed with student teaching and working two jobs that she didn’t have time). One thing the other lady did point out was that Lina needed to get a ticket SOON because otherwise she might be out of luck when it came to flying on the days she wants.

    When Lina came home this evening we talked about it. It is a HUGE step of faith to buy a non-refundable plane ticket to Africa when you don’t have the ticket funds in hand, let alone all your monthly support for once you get there! This is a case where we have to believe that God wouldn’t call her to do something and then not supply the means to do it.

    So, seven weeks from today, Lina will be on a plane bound for Zambia. PRAY with us that God will supply her every need.  I have had many, many people ask how to go about contributing to Lina’s support, and I didn’t know the answer at the time, so I promised to post it here in order to get the information out to everyone at once.  Please note, she is NOT asking for money. She is trusting in the Lord’s provision and if some choose to support her, that will be wonderful, but she is stepping out in faith here and believing that God will provide. The address, for those of you who asked for it, is:

    CMML (Christian Missions to Many Lands)

    P. O. Box 13

    Spring Lake, NJ 0776200013

     

    Of course if this is of interest to you, you would have to indicate that you were wishing to support Lina Burklin at Sakeji Mission School. I apologize to those of you who are not interested in this information, but I have received so many requests and can’t remember specifically everyone who asked for this information!

     

    [Edit: Lina has updated her blog: http://www.littleschoolinthebush.blogspot.com/]

     

    Jasper suffered some facial injuries today, and to my surprise didn’t really complain about them and didn’t cry at all. A stick he was playing with apparently ricocheted and hit him hard in the lip and on his cheek. Both areas are swollen and tender.  Which kind of makes me wonder what on earth he was doing with that stick!

     

    Quote of the Day:

    While Flynn and I were in the van, I commented that I wanted David of the White Rock (which was playing at the time) to be played at my funeral (without words).

    Flynn: “I know what I want to be played at my funeral!”

    Me: “What?”

    Flynn: “Stayin’ Alive!

    Parting Shots:

     11-12-09 clematis

    11-12-09 red leaves  

    11-12-09 red rose

    11-12-09 orange & gold tree

    11-12-09 purple flowers

    No matter where you look, there is beauty at this time of year.

  • Catching Up

    Sorry about yesterday’s uncharacteristic silence. I felt like I really needed a little break from my computer.

    We did a bunch of school, and I ended up running several errands, which were very hard on my feet.  Mercy made her big brother Flynn some hamburger cookies:

    11-11-09 hamburger cookies  

    She wanted to try to cheer him up during a bad week and thank him for covering for her at work a couple of weeks ago.

    I was able to spend some time working on Christmassy stitch markers in anticipation of the Christmas rush:

     11-11-09 December dreams preview

    I’m kind of sorry I didn’t get a post in yesterday, because I wanted to say how proud I am of my two brothers who are veterans. My brother Matt was in the Air Force for several years and my brother Jon (Matt’s twin) has been in the Marines for much of his adult life.

    And today is my dad’s 75th birthday.  Happy Birthday, Dad!

Tuesday, 10 November 2009

  • A Momentous Day

    Big doings chez Mama Mentor today. I took Mary to the credit union this morning and she finally got her very own checking and savings accounts—soon to be followed by her own debit card.  Which means I now have yet another person to bank for!

    Then before lunch Mary’s friend Liz came over and Jasper had his very first piano lesson ever:

     11-10-09 Jasper's first piano lesson

    So did Lucy. Mercy and Spencer both had lessons also, though it wasn’t the first for them because they have both had a smattering of lessons from Lina in the past. I know it works in some families, but the whole sibling-teaching-sibling thing did not work for us. I finally had to face the reality that not only was Lina never going to teach her siblings, but she is leaving the country in any case!

    Liz spends two days a week on campus right near our house, and it works out very well for her to come here to teach lessons in between her classes.  And most importantly, we can actually afford her! Jasper and Lucy are absolutely in love with the piano right now. Both practiced before supper, and I had to force Lucy to stop! I am so happy to have a plan now.  My desire was always for all my children to have a basic knowledge of music and piano, because if you have that, it is so much easier to learn any other instrument.

    When Liz left, it was time for my high school girls’ class.  I hadn’t seen my girls for three weeks, so it was great to have them back.  We had a lot of material to catch up on! And we are watching a series of videos that the girls find very boring but that I find fascinating.  It’s all about sentences, and how to construct them in an effective way, and I’m just boggled by all the ways there are to convey the same information, each one tweaking the meaning just a little bit.  This kind of stuff is grist for my mill, and I’m hoping some of it rubs off on the girls!

    After class I grabbed a bit to eat before heading up to the other side of town to catch a bead sale and then attend a health meeting. My primary reason for going to the meeting was that one of the speakers is a dear friend whom I haven’t seen for a couple of years, and I must say it was worth it. I got one of the most enthusiastic welcomes I have ever experienced!  It was so good to see her and get caught up on her life.

    I had to race home afterwards so as not to completely miss biology lab with Mercy and Amy.  We saw diatoms and spirogyra today. The spirogyra were very spiffy. The diatoms were rather underwhelming.

    After Amy left, I talked to Mangy (the fearless leader of the writing group Flynn, Mary and Mercy belong to) and after being reassured that it was all right with her, I booked a flight for Mercy to fly to Colorado for a visit next month. Mercy has been saving up her own money for this and is so excited to get to see her Colorado friends again so soon.  She will be staying with Mangy and I’m sure she’ll have a wonderful time, if she doesn’t freeze to death.

    With the flight arrangements out of the way, I could finally sit down to make a stack of envelopes and stuff them with Christmas greetings and free stitch markers for all my customers that I’ve had this year. It would have been a lot quicker to use ready-made envelopes, of course, but colorful handmade envelopes are one of my trademarks, so I could hardly wimp out of making them.

    And I also passed the 5000 word mark on my new manuscript.

    I’m kind of tired now, and I think I’m going to have to do the grading and assignment-posting tomorrow morning, in the interest of coherence.

    Parting Shot:

     11-10-09 white rose

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  • I am a conservative Christian, book-loving stay-at-home mom and adult MK from central Africa. I have been married for 28 years and home schooling for 19. I have 7 beautiful blond children ranging in age from 7-23. I live in East Texas and love it for 8 months of the year. (June, July, August & September I'm not too crazy about!) My oldest daughter has graduated from university, added some teacher training, and will soon be on her way to teach at Sakeji Mission School in Zambia. The next two are in university (living at home) and the other 4 are still schooling at home with me.

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